The Whole Package, Delivered to the Wrong Address

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I have always been a romantic guy. I believe in love at first sight, happily ever afters, and the power of true connection. But after many breakups, I have adopted the way of thinking that perhaps I have been a bit too idealistic.

You see, has that ever happen to you, that your partner was the whole package?. handsome, funny, intelligent, and successful, everything you could ever want in a man/woman. But for some reason, it just didn't work out.

We come to the realization that sometimes, we can be the whole package and still end up at the wrong address. It's not that there's anything wrong with us. It's just that the other person isn't ready or willing to receive you as you are.

I know this is a hard pill to swallow, but it's important to remember that it's not the end of the world. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and I'm sure that one day we'll find someone who is truly meant for us.

Having said that, in the meantime, we have to focus on being the best version of ourselves. we have to work on our self-love and self-acceptance. We have to surround ourselves with positive people who support us. And we have to keep believing in the power of love.

I know that one day, you'll find your happily ever after. But until then, you're going to be okay. so be the whole package, even if you're delivered to the wrong address, as of the rest, Karma will get in charge of, if they lie to you, control you, cheat on you, or whatever it is, for there's no implication of happiness but only the one you give to yourself.


Then your subconscious starts singing on the linders of:

"I'm like a fine wine: I only get better with age, but apparently no one wants to wait that long."

"I'm the perfect partner, but you can't stand me for 5 minutes."

 

Despite the sarcasm, we can't really give up on love. I know that it's out there for us, and we have to keep searching until we find it. and if we focus on being the best version of ourselves and enjoy our lives, the process will be but only easier, as the best things are those that happen on their own, even if they are short in time, for life is just a blink on one's eyes.

I know that I'm not the only one who has ever felt like they were the whole package but delivered to the wrong address. If you're feeling that way, I just want to say within the pureness of my soul that you're not alone. There are plenty of other people out there who are going through the same situation, some are more decisive and assertive than others, some are more impulsive and erratical, some take more time to decide, some have ideals created on their minds that don't allow them to let go, but nevertheless, in any case there's the one important thing above all:

What is it that you want?

Once you simmer that feeling, then clarity will allow you to take that decision for good or bad, because there is a say that is very enlightening: "the house never loses", and if you are experiencing a control issue and feel that your ego is affected, your status, self perception is affected, then I have some news for you:

There are 2 kinds of people in this world in this sense, there are those who treat you like you are another of their employees, whereas you are in a way the "atlas" of the situation and carry all the weight in your shoulders, and there are those who value what you say and do, at the same time making their best to -serve you that food that you needed when you had to suddenly leave and had no one to take care of you, cooked by their own hands when they never do-. yeah, you heard it right. THOSE TWO BEINGS ARE NOT COMPATTIBLE, as one is always going to be the loser --> the house never loses, remember that

So don't give up. Keep believing in yourself and in the power of love, for if you believe in yourself you will love yourself in such way that you won't allow anyone to treat you like another employee, like a disposable belonging, you will search for a path of peace and tranquillity, and that my friends is what living is about, for I know that one day, you'll find your happily ever after.




Location: Sydney NSW, Australia

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