The blueprint of a relationship disaster.

Love is always enough but is never enough, we believe in the bullshit we carry around, although is a parallel dimension to what we really want and it consumes us as we modify ourselves good enough to -fit- within the profile of those who want change from us, even when we feel good to certain extent about who we really are.

Today, was the day where I realized that no matter how solid matter is, it is indeed made within a vibratory state. We can think that something is solid and if we have the opportunity to change the state of vibration, perhaps we can observe the same something from the perspective of -not being solid- as we thought.

Once upon a time, there was a couple named Alice and Jack. They met in college and fell deeply in love with each other. They had everything going for them, from their common interests to their shared sense of humour. They would spend hours talking to each other, sharing their dreams and aspirations for the future. It was the perfect relationship or so they thought, oh, they thought so badly.

They were both ambitious and driven, and they supported each other in achieving their goals. They got jobs in the same city and lived together so they decided to make their relationship work. They were happy, but as time passed, they started to slowly drift apart. They had much less time to talk, and their conversations became shorter and less frequent, communication slowly became scarce.

Alice started to feel lonely and neglected. She missed the long conversations they used to have and the feeling of being close to Jack. She tried to talk to him about it, but he was always busy and distracted. She started to feel like she was the only one putting in effort in the relationship.

Meanwhile, Jack was struggling with his own problems. He was stressed out with work and had little time for anything else. He felt guilty for not being there for Alice, but he didn't know how to fix things. He tried to make up for it by buying her gifts and planning surprise escape outs, but it wasn't enough.

Their communication became more strained, and they started arguing over small things. They both felt like the other person wasn't making an effort. The relationship that once seemed perfect was now on the brink of disaster.

One day, Alice couldn't take it anymore. She broke up with Jack, feeling hurt and betrayed. Jack was devastated and didn't understand what went wrong. It was only later that he realized that he had taken Alice for granted, and he had let his work consume him. He realized that he had neglected his relationship and the person he loved the most.

The pinnacle of the breakup was clear when the unthinkable happened, they both were fully invested into the relationship, they were full of love and care for each other, they had amazing sex that was going greater by the day, so how could this have happened? Easy, they both realized that their energy was no longer in sync, at the beginning, they thought it was a temporary change, although, it became desynchronized more and more, until their energy was really worlds apart, any issue, no matter how small, the tinkering with a pillow, the pen on the bed, the light that was not shut down, shits and giggles all had the sudden capability of making them both angry, until one took the decision. That’s all it took, a decision.

The blueprint of a relationship disaster is not one single thing but a series of small things that add up over time. It's the lack of communication, the neglect, the feeling of being taken for granted, and the failure to make the other person feel loved and appreciated. Alice and Jack thought they had the perfect relationship, but they failed to work on it and nurture it. In the end, their love was not enough to overcome their differences, giving one more positive point to the saying: “Love is always enough but is never enough”.